Thursday, September 11, 2008

Waxing Often Thinner Hair

Part 2 _ Part 1

Kung Fu Panda is a cartoon successful, did spisciare all laughing in the hall last night, but to me it seems itself to have two important issues: the true self VS prostitution schemes parenting and the meaning of life according to the Buddhism.

The panda Po (big dubbing Fabio Flight guessed right ...) seems to be trapped by parental expectations of his father (which is a bird ... mah!) That a little tradition and a lot of fear seems to push the son to a life of spaghettinaro. To me it seemed very much a theme Winnicott, the true self of Po risk of succumbing to the intrusion of the father in the process of perception of their desire, with the result false.

But the story of the bad guy, Tai Lung, resembles that of Po, his teacher-father, the lesser panda Shifu, he finds an infant abandoned at the door of the academy. He decides to train him and pushed dall'orgolgio, the swells of unrealistic dreams: perhaps it was not brought Tai Lung to become the "Dragon Warrior", as the wise tartarugone. But pride, and blinded by the refusal of Tartarugone, Tai Lung begins to wreak havoc all around him, the village, his heart and that of his adoptive father Shifu. Shifu then never laugh anymore, but Tai Lung will remain imprisoned in a prison, a little 'how to say his False Self keeps him in a cage and the cage looks like be ...

too ... the love of his father, in both cases. Paraphrasing Beebe, if tuning is too much intrusion and falsifies the development of the self of a child in the first months of life, we love too often in reality is excessive fear, worry, intruding on their ideation percepts of his son, disguised as "too much love" can lead to devastating effects ...

oh God, love hurts!?
Mavala, "too much love" is simply a lie is a false myth. Love, love Asthe, it is never too ... "too much love" it means, yet so confusing (but understandable when using this term it is the parent ...), that there is more than love ... there is something too far affection: the fear for the future, unresolved trauma in the past parental fear of the dangers that lurk just around every corner, overprotection, desires of the parent but not the child (eg desires for revenge after his failure in a field pushing his son to win at all costs ... I think such a thing happens often in sports at the youth level) ...

When this occurs the effect on the child is the confusion of our capabilities, desires, and unique characteristics can be realized in the adult world, the confusion of this with the expectations and parenting patterns which prompts them to directions inauthentic. The "trauma" of unresolved father and his constant concern led him to simply not pay attention to the child but the child that they represent, thus obstructing its development and changing the experience that the child is the reality, experience that the parent who makes his own psychic reality.

"... schemas are schema prostitution parents. Adults command and reward schemes. And so, plans are. And in the end .... unhappiness" (L. Rhinheart, Man of nuts).

Pack of intervention ... better go to the next ...

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